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well okay.

Update. Sorry, the picture from Belgium will be a bit later. I need to settle into a few things.

First of all I've got  a job.... Trial period, for three months. Or, well, officially it's two months. 8D

It's so not what I imagined as my first workplace, but it put me to a challenge alright, because it's not really a thing I've done before... I'm basically an online marketing assistant at a small company. Well, I will be if I stay and if they won't decide to get rid of me. My first day was cool--er than I expected but still, I have to learn a lot. It's uni all over again. I got a few stressed moments, and a panic attack in the morning, but all was fine and dandy. 8D....... If anything, at least I get paid at the end of the month. and I have stuff to do. Even if it has nothing to do with Japanese...

Actually, I would stay in a heartbeat judging by the first day, but I'm still not sure because 1., it was the first day, duh... 2., they said if I stay, I need to stay at least two years. And that fucks up my plans about the Japanese scholarship that I still want... That will be the hardest for me to decide I think. But I have three months for it. Go me...

On an unrelated matter... a politician in Hungary said, that the solution for domestic violence is if the WOMEN go back from working, and trying to prove themselves and go and give birth to two three or more (he even said FIVE) children and raise them, so the Hungarian population will grow.

My first thought was WHATHTEFUCK.  What he said is like 'The solution for the global warming is if the fishermen would stop fishing for tuna.' It's... ITS NOT MAKING SENSE. Not at all. Thankfull the general opinion about it is the same as mine that WHADDAFUCK MAN THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS. But it's awful, that people who're supposed to see the best for us, and try and lead a country and such are THIS PRIMITIVE.

I know that the argument between women and men, and about a few related matters like abortion or the dilemma for a woman that she should go and have a career or kids is, like, eternal, and the hardest thing to solve. Let alone abortion, birthgiving is already a very private, and a very difficult matter already... I think even if a woman would LOVE to have children all her life, it's still a hard decision, it's already a stressed thing for women and when people go and talk shit like this it's just making it worse.
Alright, maybe only for me, but I think it's a huge matter. Of course I could choose not wanting to have kids, and my life would be easier and I would overlook these matters, but the thing is I want kids and as longer I think about it, it's just becoming more and more clear that it's going to be effin' difficult.

Okay I just wanted to say that... this man was saying something stupid and unrelated about a matter; blamed women and brought in the childbirth issue too, and I got very worked up about it. I know it's bit unrelated even... But it's not that women doesn't want kids, I repeat, it's not about them not WANTING to give birth, but it's not just about WANTING to do it, there needs to be money, background, the feeling of safety, so the kid or kids won't end up stupid, soulless idiots like a few examples around. I'm sorry for not wanting to raise my children in a trashcan and it's awful, that every time any family matter comes up, primitice assholes are always bringing up this issue too.

What's with men and blaiming women for everything, srsly now. Sorry that we intimidate you in your Plan for World Domination. Of course I know, that not everyone like this, but the issue is still there.

Date: 2012-09-11 06:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Gratula az álláshoz! ^^

A post másik fele, geh. De jó, hogy én ezt nem hallottam. Van most elég gondom, még az ilyen "asszony, te gyerekgyár vagy' pasik tényleg nem kellenek hozzá.

Date: 2012-09-12 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

Én is sztem csak azéeeert hallottam, mert óriási felháborodást keltett, és azért eléggé undorító dolog így érvelni. :/

Itt egy link:
Edited Date: 2012-09-12 05:28 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-09-12 08:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Méghogy a nő szüljön. Egyen kefét, és menjen ő szülni! Aztán meglátjuk hogy az első után van-e még kedve ezt ajánlgatni.

Nem is olvastam végig, de már felhúzott. Ez a barom tényleg úgy gondolja, hogy ha többen vannak, nincs erőszak a családban? Bah. Minél többen vannak, annál inkább van min összekapni. Csak régen működött a nagy családos összetartás, de már nem szocializmusban vagyunk. Nem minden mindenkié, inkább mindenki birtokolni akar dolgokat.

Date: 2012-09-11 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Yeah, riiiight. I'm gonna stay at home and be a dream housewife if my husband's salary alone is going to be enough to feed us and our 3 children. Pffft. Which Universe is this guy from? What's his name anyway? =,=

But on the more important topic: CONGRATULATIONS ON GETTING A JOB YAY! It doesn't matter it doesn't have anything to with Japanese, it's that you got one :Dv That means experience for the future, and that's awesome, it doesn't matter what kind of compay it comes from.
Do they make you sign a contract which states you have to pa them if you quit earlier than 2 years or something?

Date: 2012-09-12 05:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Seriously. :/// First they should make a proper stage for families to exist without much struggle, and maybe do something about domestic violence too, and maybe THEN the women would have more bravery to raise children, damnit.

Elhagytam a linket, de vmerre a népszabadság olnine-on olvastam róla, de gondolom az összes vmirevaló portál leközölte.

Yay, thanks!! Yes I actually agreed for the experience in the first place even. XD Well no, no contracts yet, but my boss said that if I can prove I'm useful and all, then he expects me to stay for at least two years, even if I said I might only stay one...

oh look, link:
Edited Date: 2012-09-12 05:28 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-09-12 09:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Gratuláció a melóhoz, ez máris valami, Japán meg csak nem szűnik meg pár év alatt. ^^

>What's with men and blaiming women for everything
Na azért ne általánosítsunk, viszont amikor megláttam a kivonatot a nagy parlamenti "vitáról", én is csak hápogtam, hogy WAT. Kis pozitív végkicsengése a dolognak, hogy van új internetes mémünk, ami még vicces is, ez pedig nagy szó a magyar interneteken.

Date: 2012-09-12 05:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

Igen, de ha kimegyek akkor 2 évet, lehet többet leszek kint és az eléggé hosszú meg nem tom... Szóval még filózom.

Jó bocs, persze. De nagyon sok ilyen állítólag vezető politikust látok aki ilyen soviniszta már.

omg na memé, én akarom látni ezeket a meméket!! XD

Date: 2012-09-13 04:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Mit takar az online marketing assistant? :O


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